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The 15 most common reasons explaining why you’ve been dumped – how many have been used on you?

Published on April 04, 2025 at 02:04 PM

WHETHER you're a break-up beginner or an absolute master, getting dumped is never nice.

Do you have the confidence to ditch an event with a friend when you don’t want to go, quit your job if it isn’t satisfying, or cancel a subscription you’re not using?

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This quiz will question your approach to different situations in life – revealing whether you’re an expert negotiator or a procrastinator.

It follows research which revealed the common reasons for a break-up, including hating their taste in TV and , their terrible dress sense – and the over-use of in messages.

A poll of 2,000 adults who have been in a relationship, commissioned by free streaming platform Freely, delved into the unique reasons given for a split, such as not liking their sports team or food choices.

Other rather bizarre excuses include having different star signs, being allergic to a pet, or wanting to focus on a career.

While the top reasons given were “it’s not you, it’s me”; and not being ready for a serious relationship.

One respondent said they had to bin their ex because their snoring was simply too intense.

A spokesperson for Freely said: “Breaking up is never easy – whether it’s with a partner, a job or even a subscription.

“Many of us stick with things longer than we should, whether out of habit or fear of change.

“But sometimes the best thing we can do is be honest with ourselves and take that step – especially when it’s no longer giving us what we need.

“This research shows we’re all guilty of hanging on for the wrong reasons, even when the writing’s on the wall.”;

The study found 55 per cent stayed in longer than they should, hoping for change or because they didn't want to hurt the other's feelings.

And seven in 10 said breaking up with a loved one is one of the most nerve-wracking things to do in life.

Although 81 per cent encouraged others to deliver the news face to face according to the OnePoll.com data.

Of those who have made the first move in a break up, one in 10 would choose to simply ghost them.

Such breakup difficulties extend beyond relationships; as 22 per cent of adults who have subscriptions admit having strong loyalties to certain services they’d struggle to split with.

Breaking up with subscription services is tricky due to providers repeatedly asking if you’re sure, not letting you walk away easily, and making you feel guilty.

Over a quarter take the easy route and take the hit, still paying for a subscription despite no longer using it.

Of these unused subscriptions, 55 per cent relate to streaming and subscriptions.

On average, up to £480 is being spent annually on these unused services.

Although they seem content wasting their wedge, there’s a limit to the madness as 83 per cent would easily swap subscriptions if there was a free option for one they paid for.

A spokesperson for Freely added: “It’s funny how breaking up with a subscription can feel just as dramatic as ending a relationship – complete with guilt trips, clingy prompts, and the odd emotional farewell.

“But when something no longer fits your lifestyle or delivers what you need, it’s natural to start looking elsewhere.

“There’s plenty more TV out there — and it’s clear that simplicity, flexibility and value are what people are really after.

“Some options won’t cost you a thing or make you question your life choices.”;

Illustration of a breakup quiz with different question scenarios and personality results.

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